Posted on | December 16, 2013 | By Guest Contributor | 37 Comments
Dear Beyond BT
I would consider myself a very growth oriented BT and I’ve continued to progress over the years.
Recently my employment situation has required me to think about work when I am at home. This is a reality which can not be changed at this current time. As a result my kavannah during davening is suffering and my davening is often on the fast side.
The other day, my growth-oriented 15 year old Yeshivish son asked me how I could possibly daven that fast. I didn’t have a good answer, but someone suggested that perhaps I could at least stay in Shomoneh Esrai a little longer (by not stepping back) so at least it looks like I’m davening at a more respectable pace.
I’m a little uncomfortable with that, but at the same time I don’t want to provide bad role modeling for my son or get into a “Do as I say, not as I do” relationship.
Any suggestions on what to do and what to say to my son.
Originally Published May 13, 2009