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A Succos Reawakening

Posted on | October 3, 2012 | By David Linn | 5 Comments

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A few years ago, on Chol HaMoed Succos, our family headed to New Jersey for a few days of outdoor fun. It’s the time of year when our family spends the most extended time together. One of the expected highlights was a ferry ride between Delaware and New Jersey where we hoped to spot dolphins and whales sporting in the water. Unfortunately, on the morning of the ferry ride, we got a late start and the ferry left without us. We missed the boat! The following year, our family excitedly set out for our annual Chol HaMoed Trip.

On this trip we headed, once again, for New Jersey making our first stop at Allaire State Park, a restoration type village twenty minutes from Lakewood. At the Park, we rode an old time railroad and the children placed coins on the tracks and marveled at how the locomotive flattened them and smoothed them out. Afterwards, we walked through the village watching a blacksmith perform his trade, 1800s style. Next, we rented old-time fishing poles: a reed of bamboo, a piece of string, a cork, and frozen hot dogs for bait! We fished in the village pond and it seemed like the entire village was cheering us on when we snagged quite a large tenacious fish, along with two other smaller fish. Finally, we hiked along the Manasquan water table surrounded by streams, creeks, a small waterfall, lush greenery and, to the delight of the children, lots of mud. That night, upon returning to Lakewood, we had a barbeque in the Succah complete with S’mores.

The next morning, we were off vegetable picking. We visited a farm where you can pick just about any vegetable you could imagine. Potatoes, string beans, sweet potatoes, peppers (even hot ones which left the kids red in the face, teary-eyed and screaming for a drink!). There were black-eyed peas, eggplants, cucumbers, onions, you name it. We picked zucchini nearly the length of my arm and about as wide as my thigh! We ate corn, sugar sweet, straight out of the husk, no cooking or butter needed, thank you. On the way back, we stopped at the Manasquan Reservoir where we took in a gorgeous sunset and the children romped in a park complete with a zip-line. The evening was topped off with pizza and ice cream in the Succah.

The next morning, back on the road again. This time to the Shenedoah River where we rented row boats and attempted to fish with a broken rod and reel and uncooperative worms. The setting was bucolic; shimmering water, bright sun, a light breeze and ducks diving for their lunch as we floated along.

After this whirlwind, incredible three days, I asked my four year old daughter which part of Chol HaMoed she liked the best. She looked up at me through her wispy bangs, widened her big blue eyes and said, in her sing-song voice: ‘The Lulav’. Whoa! You could have knocked me over with a feather. I almost missed the boat again! I almost got so caught up in the Chol, that I forgot the Moed. I picked up my daughter, swung her around, gave her a big hug and a kiss, and secretly thanked her for her unintended lesson.

The next morning, Hoshana Rabbah, I took advantage of my last chance of thr year to bentsch lulav. I made the brocha with extra focus and kavanah and with sincere thanks to Hashem, and my daughter, that I didn’t lose the lulav for the trees.

This piece originally appeared in Horizons magazine.
Originally posted October 23, 2006.

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5 Responses to “A Succos Reawakening”

  1. Ruby
    October 23rd, 2006 @ 12:34 pm

    Beautiful post! In continuing with the lulav theme –

    “I picked up my daughter, swung her around, gave her a big hug and a kiss, and secretly thanked her for her unintended lesson.”

    - conjures up images of doing na’anu’im with her while saying “Hodu LaHahshem ki tov…”

    I also have a family vacation story that inspired extra focus and sincere thanks to Hahsem, but it is too long for a “reply”. Maybe I will write it up someday…

  2. David Linn
    October 23rd, 2006 @ 1:27 pm

    Ruby,

    Now, you’ve cornered yourself. We’ll be expecting that write up any day.

  3. Mr. Cohen
    October 7th, 2012 @ 11:52 am

    Kav HaYashar, Chapter 95:
    A correctly constructed sukkah is a throne for the Holy One Blessed Be He and His Shechinah.

  4. Ron Coleman
    October 21st, 2012 @ 11:53 am

    Why doesn’t this guy write posts like this on this blog any more? He was good!

  5. Judy Resnick
    October 23rd, 2012 @ 5:35 am

    Missing those gems from Ruby and Jaded Topaz!

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