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Elul – Some Resources for Motivation

Posted on | August 14, 2012 | By Administrator | 14 Comments

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Elul is coming which means that the Teshuva season is about to begin. If we want to have a successful Rosh Hoshana and Yom Kippur, seforim strongly advise us to start early in the month. It’s a tremendous opportunity for growth and we’d be foolish not to take advantage of it.

Most of the current day Rebbeim advise us to pick something small. Maybe saying Asher Yotzar with Kavanna, or pausing before we speak on occasion or perhaps starting an extra 10 minute seder in Mussar, Mishnah or Tanach. The sky is truly the limit, but we have to start reaching for it when Elul begins.

Being that our goal is to get closer to Hashem and we’re doing mitzvos to accomplish that goal, it might make sense to try to do the mitzvos with a little more Kavanna. There are three simple thoughts we can have before doing any mitzvah:

1) Hashem commanded us to do the mitzvah
2) We are the ones being commanded
3) And the specific mitzvah, whose commandment we are fullfilling is …. (whatever mitzvah you are doing)

It’s really pretty simple and it will help us get so much more mileage out of the mitzvos we already do.

Here’s a few resources for extra motivation:

Stepping Stones to Repentance: A thirty-day program based on Ohr Yisrael the classic writings of Rav Yisrael Salanter By: Rabbi Zvi Miller here’s an excerpt

DAY ONE: “BOUNDLESS BLESSINGS”
“There is no enterprise that yields profit like preparation for the Day of Atonement. Through studying Mussar and reflecting on how to improve one’s ways, a person is inspired on Yom Kippur to make resolutions for the future. Even the smallest, most minute preparation to enhance one’s Yom Kippur experience is invaluable, bringing boundless blessings of success. It saves one from many troubles — and there is no greater profit than this.” (Ohr Yisrael, Letter Seven, p. 193)

Rebbetzin Tzipora Heller – Three Steps to Genuine Change. An excerpt:

In the course of our lives, we close doors to higher and deeper selves and sometimes forget that we, too, are more than earners, spenders, and travelers through life. Our thoughtless enslavement to mindless routine can leave us without much of a relationship to our souls. In a materialistic society, it is all too easy to view others as competitors. As toddlers we observed that when you have three cookies and give one away, all you have left are two. From that point onward we are afraid to give.

R’ Dovid Schwartz – Rabbi Yonah of Gerona – Guilt is Good – mp3

R’ Daniel Stein – Hilchos Teshuva Introduction – mp3

R’ Moshe Schwerd – Din V’Cheshbon – mp3

R’ Yakov Haber on Rosh Hoshana and Hirhur Teshuva according to Rav Soloveitchik can be downloaded here.

R’ Yakov Haber on Rosh Hoshana davening can be downloaded here.

Originally posted August 14, 2007

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14 Responses to “Elul – Some Resources for Motivation”

  1. Neil Harris
    August 14th, 2007 @ 11:15 pm

    Thanks for the great links, Mark. This is my third Elul using (I’m not your)STEPPING STONES. I highly recommend it (the program, not the song. Although there have been some great Punk band that did some cool versions).

  2. Zahava Pasternak
    August 29th, 2007 @ 11:09 pm

    Beginning with the 2nd day of Rosh Chodesh Elul until the eve of Rosh Hashanah, four sounds are blown from the shofar daily at the end of the Sacharis service. The shofar is sounded during the entire month to warn the people of the approach of the Day of Judgment and thereby arouse them to repent.

    Amos 3:6 If a shofar is sounded in the city, will the people not tremble?

    And now I sing…..

    Loudly but tenderly, the Shofar is sounding
    Calling for Yidden to repent
    Tekiah, Shevarim, Teruah, and tekiah
    Awaken, you sleepers…. repent

    Return, return,
    Yidden that are slumbering, return
    Loudly, but tenderly, the Shofar is sounding
    Awaken, you sleepers…repent

    Why should you tarry, the Day of Judgment is approaching
    Search your actions and return in penitence
    Forsake the sin you are committing, regret and confess it
    For HASHEM has mercy and pardons.

    Return, return,
    Yidden that are slumbering, return
    Loudly, but tenderly, the Shofar is sounding
    Awaken, you sleepers….repent.

  3. Shunamit
    August 29th, 2008 @ 4:47 am

    Rbtzn Heller has an excellent shiur up at na’aleh.com on practical steps to teshuva. My personal plan is to finally finish all the Machzor HaMikdash for Yom Kippur, with the hope of knowing where we’re aiming, personally and nationally. Plus, I’m treating myself to Rav Zev Leff’s new book on the shmonah esrei. It’s beautifully organized and well-edited, and they typesetting is a pleasure to behold. Of course, nobody puts deep Torah ideas in such a sane, sensible framework as Rav Leff.

  4. Melbournite
    August 31st, 2008 @ 7:51 pm

    Where I am I wonder why Av is in winter and Tishrei is in spring.

  5. Steve Brizel
    September 7th, 2008 @ 10:18 pm

    FWIW, there is a new volume of the excellent Noroaos HaRav ( Vol.16) that contains three drashos of RYBS.

  6. Steve Brizel
    August 11th, 2010 @ 12:21 pm

    One cannot begin to understand the unique challenge and opportunities of the Yamim Noraim without at least getting a basic comprehension of the Tefilos of RH and YK, which encapsulate the Kedushas HaYom in so many ways.

  7. Shua Cohen
    August 11th, 2010 @ 1:12 pm

    > “One cannot begin to understand the unique challenge and opportunities of the Yamim Noraim without at least getting a basic comprehension of the Tefilos of RH and YK, which encapsulate the Kedushas HaYom in so many ways.”

    >> One cannot begin to understand who the heck you’re referring to when you write “RH” and “YK.”

    Reb Brizel, I googled your name and the word “acronyms” and discovered that many people in the past have commented on your heavy use of the same, and erroneous belief that there is some sort of universal understanding of them.

    As Bob Miller wrote FOUR YEARS AGO: “As part of our Elul introspection, let’s try to cut down on acronyms. The casual reader who wades into this alphabet soup must be puzzled.” Like, who knew that “Robin Hood” and “Yoko Kanno” were even Jewish.

  8. Bob Miller
    August 11th, 2010 @ 1:52 pm

    In all fairness, the context makes RH and YK easy to decipher.

  9. Shua Cohen
    August 11th, 2010 @ 2:36 pm

    Bob:

    Yesterday, an intermarried woman wrote in that her assimilated Jewish husband was not even aware that intermarriage is prohibited. This was a good reminder that there are people out there who know almost NOTHING about Judaism! This being a website for the uninitiated, it is reasonable to assume that these are the very people who peruse the essays and comments found on Beyond Teshuva.

    For those people: RH = Rosh Hashana, YK = Yom Kippur

  10. Bob Miller
    August 11th, 2010 @ 3:45 pm

    Shua,

    That’s an interesting point about the scope of this blog.

    I think the idea was to form an online support group for Baalei Teshuva (BT’s). Many institutions were guiding the BT’s under their wing, but only up to a point, after which the BT’s now out in the world had to fend for themselves. This initial target group might be able to understand really basic acronyms but not the more arcane ones.

    Now, Beyond BT might be attracting a wider audience, as you suggest. If so, that would put a greater burden on us not to write in code, and even to translate Hebrew words not generally understood.

    I invite the moderators to comment on the above points.

  11. Mark Frankel
    August 11th, 2010 @ 8:18 pm

    The intent of Beyond BT is as Bob stated, to help BTs who have already passed the initial stages.

    We do recognized there are other categories of Jews who read and we welcome them all!

    It might make sense to accommodate as many people as possible and write all articles and posts with an eye toward those who are not familiar with Judaism, but I think that would be burdensome and would cause many articles and comments to lose some of their flavor.

    My suggestion to our writers and commentators is to use your judgment.

  12. Judy Resnick
    August 12th, 2010 @ 1:55 pm

    I personally had more problems with the English acronyms WADR and FWIW and IMHO used on this blog, until I deciphered that these terms meant, respectively, the following: “with all due respect,” “for what it’s worth,” and “in my humble opinion.” I’m used to decoding bureaucratese, so these weren’t too difficult. I even managed to figure out that RYBS meant the great HaGaon HoRav Yosef [Dov] Ber Soloveitchik zatzal. After that, RH for Rosh Hashanah and YK for Yom Kippur was child’s play. Now I acronym and Ivrit and abbreviate and Yinglish and yeshivishe-sprach away, and if you don’t understand me….that’s your problem!

  13. Bob Miller
    August 12th, 2010 @ 3:17 pm

    Good for you, JR!

  14. Judy Resnick
    August 12th, 2010 @ 5:18 pm

    To Bob Miller #13: Once a BT or Gair/Giyores realizes that Chazaras HaShatz means the repetition of the Amidah by the guy leading the services, then figuring out any other Roshei Teivos is a snap. Maybe we should post a Guide to Frum Abbreviations on this website, BS”D.

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