<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: A Message from the Dungeon</title>
	<atom:link href="http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/</link>
	<description>Baalei Teshuva / Baalei Teshuvah and Other Growth Oriented Jews</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 01:49:02 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0</generator>
	<item>
		<title>By: Sid Chase</title>
		<link>http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/comment-page-1/#comment-9402</link>
		<dc:creator>Sid Chase</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Aug 2006 22:14:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.beyondbt.com/?p=449#comment-9402</guid>
		<description>&quot;Pavarotti-like cantorial renditions common in many older congregations inspire me to the same degree as fingernails on a chalk board.&quot; 

Try a basso. I prefer the chazan to be clear, with words that can be understood by any ear. If, to get that, I have to suffer some unnecessary - but sometimes elegant - trills, okay.

Listening to mumbles instead of words is no fun - nigun excepted.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Pavarotti-like cantorial renditions common in many older congregations inspire me to the same degree as fingernails on a chalk board.&#8221; </p>
<p>Try a basso. I prefer the chazan to be clear, with words that can be understood by any ear. If, to get that, I have to suffer some unnecessary &#8211; but sometimes elegant &#8211; trills, okay.</p>
<p>Listening to mumbles instead of words is no fun &#8211; nigun excepted.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Ronnie Fredman</title>
		<link>http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/comment-page-1/#comment-9054</link>
		<dc:creator>Ronnie Fredman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Aug 2006 15:12:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.beyondbt.com/?p=449#comment-9054</guid>
		<description>Thank you again, Rabbi Goldson. It was good to read you this morning. It helps to refocus on the Yomim Noraim. It helps to refocus when sometimes I feel a pity and melancholy. The self is so self-serving. Nothing cosmic ever occurred by meditating on the belly button.

Ronnie</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you again, Rabbi Goldson. It was good to read you this morning. It helps to refocus on the Yomim Noraim. It helps to refocus when sometimes I feel a pity and melancholy. The self is so self-serving. Nothing cosmic ever occurred by meditating on the belly button.</p>
<p>Ronnie</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Rabbi Yonason Goldson</title>
		<link>http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/comment-page-1/#comment-8987</link>
		<dc:creator>Rabbi Yonason Goldson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Aug 2006 21:12:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.beyondbt.com/?p=449#comment-8987</guid>
		<description>I got back from out of town last night, and I&#039;m delighted to discover how much discussion my post generated in my absence.  Thanks to all for the chizuk.

Mark and David:

How about a place on the blog for resumes and job postings?

Just kidding.

Sort of.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got back from out of town last night, and I&#8217;m delighted to discover how much discussion my post generated in my absence.  Thanks to all for the chizuk.</p>
<p>Mark and David:</p>
<p>How about a place on the blog for resumes and job postings?</p>
<p>Just kidding.</p>
<p>Sort of.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Boris (Baruch) Kerzhner</title>
		<link>http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/comment-page-1/#comment-8969</link>
		<dc:creator>Boris (Baruch) Kerzhner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Aug 2006 18:52:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.beyondbt.com/?p=449#comment-8969</guid>
		<description>Dear Rav,

This is your student writing to you... I hear what you had to say about the brouhaha that was caused in your heart from the circumstances that impose on you; however, I certainly wanted to mention to you that you and no other rabbi at Yeshiva Atlanta made me feel close to Torah -- you spoke my tongue, you were not presumptuous as most frum rabbis are, you do not take Torah and its teaching for granted -- and I wanted to console you that at least in one student your teaching has found most cherished resonance, and I owe it to you. Your name rings when I share with many who was the rabbi at Yeshiva Atlanta with whom you were close. Aside from that, I wished to share with you some other thoughts on the matter at hand, namely, &quot;How deep can you Love somebody?&quot;, asked Leo Tolstoy -- the answer is &quot;Only as deep as you can suffer&quot; -- shallow people tend to fall off the boat from a mere trifle, and ask for a divorce when in reality the problem is insignificant. Likewise, the pain, the trial, the suffering is the conditioning that G-d imposes on some of his most worthy students to make them greater. As Ramchal writes, sometimes G-d brings you to the ground, so that he can rebuild you with a broader base, so that you can loom above other buildings.

Shabbat Shalom,

your student, in whose heart you will not be forgotten,

Boris</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Rav,</p>
<p>This is your student writing to you&#8230; I hear what you had to say about the brouhaha that was caused in your heart from the circumstances that impose on you; however, I certainly wanted to mention to you that you and no other rabbi at Yeshiva Atlanta made me feel close to Torah &#8212; you spoke my tongue, you were not presumptuous as most frum rabbis are, you do not take Torah and its teaching for granted &#8212; and I wanted to console you that at least in one student your teaching has found most cherished resonance, and I owe it to you. Your name rings when I share with many who was the rabbi at Yeshiva Atlanta with whom you were close. Aside from that, I wished to share with you some other thoughts on the matter at hand, namely, &#8220;How deep can you Love somebody?&#8221;, asked Leo Tolstoy &#8212; the answer is &#8220;Only as deep as you can suffer&#8221; &#8212; shallow people tend to fall off the boat from a mere trifle, and ask for a divorce when in reality the problem is insignificant. Likewise, the pain, the trial, the suffering is the conditioning that G-d imposes on some of his most worthy students to make them greater. As Ramchal writes, sometimes G-d brings you to the ground, so that he can rebuild you with a broader base, so that you can loom above other buildings.</p>
<p>Shabbat Shalom,</p>
<p>your student, in whose heart you will not be forgotten,</p>
<p>Boris</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Bob Miller</title>
		<link>http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/comment-page-1/#comment-8956</link>
		<dc:creator>Bob Miller</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Aug 2006 16:13:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.beyondbt.com/?p=449#comment-8956</guid>
		<description>David Linn said,
&quot; I usually script my speech, rehearse from the script and gradually wean myself from it..&quot;

This does work for disciplined speakers with ad-lib-ability.  

Whichever way, there has to be structure.  If the talk might not be great, it can at least be good.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David Linn said,<br />
&#8221; I usually script my speech, rehearse from the script and gradually wean myself from it..&#8221;</p>
<p>This does work for disciplined speakers with ad-lib-ability.  </p>
<p>Whichever way, there has to be structure.  If the talk might not be great, it can at least be good.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Ruby</title>
		<link>http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/comment-page-1/#comment-8954</link>
		<dc:creator>Ruby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Aug 2006 15:48:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.beyondbt.com/?p=449#comment-8954</guid>
		<description>Rabbi S&#039; reference to Mordechai touches on another challenge that Rabbi Goldson and countless others surely face from all sorts of  dungeons. The final (some say most admirable) praise for Mordechai is found in  the final words of the Megilah &quot;v&#039;dover shalom l&#039;chol zar&#039;o&quot;, maintains peaceful relations with ALL his children. Quite an accomplishment to be so politically and communally involved and still have time for good relations with all one&#039;s children. This could be a thread all to itself (I really wanted to use the &quot;thread to itself&quot; line when the discussion was Marty&#039;s new tztitzis...)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rabbi S&#8217; reference to Mordechai touches on another challenge that Rabbi Goldson and countless others surely face from all sorts of  dungeons. The final (some say most admirable) praise for Mordechai is found in  the final words of the Megilah &#8220;v&#8217;dover shalom l&#8217;chol zar&#8217;o&#8221;, maintains peaceful relations with ALL his children. Quite an accomplishment to be so politically and communally involved and still have time for good relations with all one&#8217;s children. This could be a thread all to itself (I really wanted to use the &#8220;thread to itself&#8221; line when the discussion was Marty&#8217;s new tztitzis&#8230;)</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: David Linn</title>
		<link>http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/comment-page-1/#comment-8951</link>
		<dc:creator>David Linn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Aug 2006 14:12:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.beyondbt.com/?p=449#comment-8951</guid>
		<description>Bob,

You make some good points. As far as the cutsie titles go,I think they are often a necesity since we live in a world of sound bytes and shorter attention spans. That doesn&#039;t mean that we need to dumb down the shiurim but it often does mean that the cutsey title will bring more people out to learn Torah. I do agree that we generally need to be given more info on the topic. 

As a bit of a public speaker myself (those who have heard me, please hold the jeers and virtual rotten tomatoes) I think that a script is often a bad idea since it tends to lock the speaker into a mode that often robs him of the free form and ad libbing that make for a great speech. I usually script my speech, rehearse from the script and gradually wean myself from it to the point that I can deliver the speech without the script. I then make a written &quot;roadmap&quot; highlighting the major points and transitions of the speech. That walks the line betweeen a rote script and freedom to change words, descriptions or even points on the fly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bob,</p>
<p>You make some good points. As far as the cutsie titles go,I think they are often a necesity since we live in a world of sound bytes and shorter attention spans. That doesn&#8217;t mean that we need to dumb down the shiurim but it often does mean that the cutsey title will bring more people out to learn Torah. I do agree that we generally need to be given more info on the topic. </p>
<p>As a bit of a public speaker myself (those who have heard me, please hold the jeers and virtual rotten tomatoes) I think that a script is often a bad idea since it tends to lock the speaker into a mode that often robs him of the free form and ad libbing that make for a great speech. I usually script my speech, rehearse from the script and gradually wean myself from it to the point that I can deliver the speech without the script. I then make a written &#8220;roadmap&#8221; highlighting the major points and transitions of the speech. That walks the line betweeen a rote script and freedom to change words, descriptions or even points on the fly.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Bob Miller</title>
		<link>http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/comment-page-1/#comment-8946</link>
		<dc:creator>Bob Miller</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Aug 2006 12:18:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.beyondbt.com/?p=449#comment-8946</guid>
		<description>There are more than enough fine public speakers on Torah topics of interest to go around.  The organizations need to spend wisely based on their situations, and the members need to see beyond &quot;star appeal&quot; and turn out for presentations on interesting topics.

We could also benefit from fewer cutesy titles for lectures, and more advance information on what will actually be covered.  Speakers  should be encouraged to work from a script (the really good ones know this already). Speakers should not have to rush at the end to the punch line because of poor pacing or organization.

If the speaker slips in a negative reference to any Jewish group or person (not a good idea in general, but unfortunately common) there had better be enough question time for the other point of view to be heard.  I&#039;ve been at one talk in Shul where a visiting rabbi who should have known better ridiculed a Gadol of a few decades ago; I felt as if I needed to take a shower after his presentation, for this and other reasons, to remove the &quot;tumah&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are more than enough fine public speakers on Torah topics of interest to go around.  The organizations need to spend wisely based on their situations, and the members need to see beyond &#8220;star appeal&#8221; and turn out for presentations on interesting topics.</p>
<p>We could also benefit from fewer cutesy titles for lectures, and more advance information on what will actually be covered.  Speakers  should be encouraged to work from a script (the really good ones know this already). Speakers should not have to rush at the end to the punch line because of poor pacing or organization.</p>
<p>If the speaker slips in a negative reference to any Jewish group or person (not a good idea in general, but unfortunately common) there had better be enough question time for the other point of view to be heard.  I&#8217;ve been at one talk in Shul where a visiting rabbi who should have known better ridiculed a Gadol of a few decades ago; I felt as if I needed to take a shower after his presentation, for this and other reasons, to remove the &#8220;tumah&#8221;.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Rabbi Shmuel Simenowitz</title>
		<link>http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/comment-page-1/#comment-8942</link>
		<dc:creator>Rabbi Shmuel Simenowitz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Aug 2006 10:07:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.beyondbt.com/?p=449#comment-8942</guid>
		<description>Chaim  I agree 100% but even there, there&#039;s somewhat of a bittersweet paradox - the real Rabbi Akiva Eigers would hardly consider themselves &quot;marquis material&quot; &#039;nuf said.
R&#039; Goldson and Chaim - Mark and I had a wonderful discussion last Sunday about your very dilemma. The gemara teaches us that Mordechai&#039;s standing as a learned member of Anshie Kneses Hag&#039;dola dropped several notches when he went into public affairs. Should he have just stayed within his dalet amos and kept his learning/spiritual level, etc. as high as he would have liked? The Rebbe pointed out that the megilla itself provides a clue - Ki Mordechai hayhudi - to the king he was &quot;mishneh lamelech&quot; (viceroy) to the populace he was still a gadol and among his peers he was still &quot;ratzui l&#039;rove echav&quot; - desirable to the majority of his colleagues - not everyone approved but the consensus was apprently that he had done well. Yeyasher kochacha and try to keep your eye on the bottom line while avoiding the bottom line (v&#039;hamayvin yavin)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chaim  I agree 100% but even there, there&#8217;s somewhat of a bittersweet paradox &#8211; the real Rabbi Akiva Eigers would hardly consider themselves &#8220;marquis material&#8221; &#8216;nuf said.<br />
R&#8217; Goldson and Chaim &#8211; Mark and I had a wonderful discussion last Sunday about your very dilemma. The gemara teaches us that Mordechai&#8217;s standing as a learned member of Anshie Kneses Hag&#8217;dola dropped several notches when he went into public affairs. Should he have just stayed within his dalet amos and kept his learning/spiritual level, etc. as high as he would have liked? The Rebbe pointed out that the megilla itself provides a clue &#8211; Ki Mordechai hayhudi &#8211; to the king he was &#8220;mishneh lamelech&#8221; (viceroy) to the populace he was still a gadol and among his peers he was still &#8220;ratzui l&#8217;rove echav&#8221; &#8211; desirable to the majority of his colleagues &#8211; not everyone approved but the consensus was apprently that he had done well. Yeyasher kochacha and try to keep your eye on the bottom line while avoiding the bottom line (v&#8217;hamayvin yavin)</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Chaim Grossferstant</title>
		<link>http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/comment-page-1/#comment-8937</link>
		<dc:creator>Chaim Grossferstant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Aug 2006 03:37:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.beyondbt.com/?p=449#comment-8937</guid>
		<description>When  A. Rod was about to  sign his Yankee contract the media reported that his agent negotiated an &quot;escalator&quot; clause stipulating that, if before his contarct expired some other  ballplayer signed for a greater annual salary, his would automatically &quot;escalte&quot; to $1 more than the other guy&#039;s!  Talk about ego!

I don&#039;t think that the popular lecturers on the Frum circuit are of the same ilk, but part of Kavod HaTorah is establishing a hirearchy and pecking order.  Chazal tell us that Dayonim in the Sanhedrin were seated according to scholarly rank with the least august sitting at the ends of the table and the most illustrious towards the middle.  As you mentioned recently in another thread, in order to avoid the mistakes of thinking that the Rambam was wrong or that Rav Akiva Eiger was superficial it&#039;s vital to establish who the &quot;Rav Akiva Eigers&quot; are.  I know this may sound Orwellian but some Talmidei Chachamim (and their opinions) are more equal than others.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When  A. Rod was about to  sign his Yankee contract the media reported that his agent negotiated an &#8220;escalator&#8221; clause stipulating that, if before his contarct expired some other  ballplayer signed for a greater annual salary, his would automatically &#8220;escalte&#8221; to $1 more than the other guy&#8217;s!  Talk about ego!</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think that the popular lecturers on the Frum circuit are of the same ilk, but part of Kavod HaTorah is establishing a hirearchy and pecking order.  Chazal tell us that Dayonim in the Sanhedrin were seated according to scholarly rank with the least august sitting at the ends of the table and the most illustrious towards the middle.  As you mentioned recently in another thread, in order to avoid the mistakes of thinking that the Rambam was wrong or that Rav Akiva Eiger was superficial it&#8217;s vital to establish who the &#8220;Rav Akiva Eigers&#8221; are.  I know this may sound Orwellian but some Talmidei Chachamim (and their opinions) are more equal than others.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Rabbi Shmuel Simenowitz</title>
		<link>http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/comment-page-1/#comment-8935</link>
		<dc:creator>Rabbi Shmuel Simenowitz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Aug 2006 02:16:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.beyondbt.com/?p=449#comment-8935</guid>
		<description>&quot;There is no doubt that there is a both a pecking order and star structure in guest speakers,&quot; 

How ironic - I was an entertainment attorney for nearly 25 years and I spent a great deal of time negotiating credit clauses and calculating star&#039;s &quot;marquis value&quot; and fighting how big their names should be on the screen, the placement, duration and &quot;most favored nations&quot; that no one&#039;s credits could be better than theirs. I thought when I moved away from that world that I could use Moshe Rabbenu&#039;s model &quot;M&#039;chani na misifr&#039;cha - write me out of the book&quot; meaning that bottom line - it wasn&#039;t all just about him. I&#039;m comforted to learn that the skills I picked up in that world might still be put to use :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;There is no doubt that there is a both a pecking order and star structure in guest speakers,&#8221; </p>
<p>How ironic &#8211; I was an entertainment attorney for nearly 25 years and I spent a great deal of time negotiating credit clauses and calculating star&#8217;s &#8220;marquis value&#8221; and fighting how big their names should be on the screen, the placement, duration and &#8220;most favored nations&#8221; that no one&#8217;s credits could be better than theirs. I thought when I moved away from that world that I could use Moshe Rabbenu&#8217;s model &#8220;M&#8217;chani na misifr&#8217;cha &#8211; write me out of the book&#8221; meaning that bottom line &#8211; it wasn&#8217;t all just about him. I&#8217;m comforted to learn that the skills I picked up in that world might still be put to use :)</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Sarah Newcomb</title>
		<link>http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/comment-page-1/#comment-8822</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah Newcomb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Aug 2006 15:27:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.beyondbt.com/?p=449#comment-8822</guid>
		<description>Elul is just around the corner. It may seem that when giving to others, like running a minyan, program, shiur on Yom Tovim, that we are losing something personally, and maybe we are in some way, not clear on that, some personal focus perhaps. Nevertheless, there is a gain, a greater gain in my humble opinion, even if we don&#039;t feel or recognize it immediately. We grow from every experience, everytime we give to others. Every time our children watch us sincerely giving to others. I see it over and over again. My husband&#039;s students come often to visit. Sometimes some of us are tired, some families might prefer private time, we try to stay focused on giving, sharing, being there for others, within reason of course. Delicate balance to walk.

Another seemingly difficult scenario is for mothers who must care for their young children on the Yom Tovim instead of being able to attend inspiring davening in shul. That was a hard one for me many moons ago. Took many years of work to appreciate the value and privilege of being able to care for childrens needs instead of being in shul on Rosh Hashona or Yom Kippur, or for shorter periods of time. Also work to stir ones self to as much intense and meaningful prayer as one is able to alone. Now, looking back, I have learned so much about what is truly important, about how we grow, and don&#039;t always realize it until later.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Elul is just around the corner. It may seem that when giving to others, like running a minyan, program, shiur on Yom Tovim, that we are losing something personally, and maybe we are in some way, not clear on that, some personal focus perhaps. Nevertheless, there is a gain, a greater gain in my humble opinion, even if we don&#8217;t feel or recognize it immediately. We grow from every experience, everytime we give to others. Every time our children watch us sincerely giving to others. I see it over and over again. My husband&#8217;s students come often to visit. Sometimes some of us are tired, some families might prefer private time, we try to stay focused on giving, sharing, being there for others, within reason of course. Delicate balance to walk.</p>
<p>Another seemingly difficult scenario is for mothers who must care for their young children on the Yom Tovim instead of being able to attend inspiring davening in shul. That was a hard one for me many moons ago. Took many years of work to appreciate the value and privilege of being able to care for childrens needs instead of being in shul on Rosh Hashona or Yom Kippur, or for shorter periods of time. Also work to stir ones self to as much intense and meaningful prayer as one is able to alone. Now, looking back, I have learned so much about what is truly important, about how we grow, and don&#8217;t always realize it until later.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Steve Brizel</title>
		<link>http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/comment-page-1/#comment-8785</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve Brizel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Aug 2006 00:02:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.beyondbt.com/?p=449#comment-8785</guid>
		<description>Mark-Thanks for the clarification. No disagreement here.We also save our best speakers for special events ( i.e. Selichos, etc. There is no doubt that there is a both a pecking order and star structure in guest speakers, etc. that demands a lot of thought and preparation into logistics and topics.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mark-Thanks for the clarification. No disagreement here.We also save our best speakers for special events ( i.e. Selichos, etc. There is no doubt that there is a both a pecking order and star structure in guest speakers, etc. that demands a lot of thought and preparation into logistics and topics.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Mark Frankel</title>
		<link>http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/comment-page-1/#comment-8783</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark Frankel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Aug 2006 23:50:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.beyondbt.com/?p=449#comment-8783</guid>
		<description>Steve, 

The main purpose of a shiur is clearly the Torah learned and the intangible (i.e. not measurable) spiritual benefit derived. 

However, that does not mean that we would fly Rabbi Frand in from Baltimore to address a crowd of 5 people, although those 5 people would certainly be learning Torah and accruing spiritual benefit. 

So although every time Torah is learned there is immeasurable spiritual benefit, other more mundane factors such as the time spent and kavod of the speaker, the time of those involved in the project, the cost, the number attending, etc.. must be taken into consideration when evaluating whether to take on the project.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steve, </p>
<p>The main purpose of a shiur is clearly the Torah learned and the intangible (i.e. not measurable) spiritual benefit derived. </p>
<p>However, that does not mean that we would fly Rabbi Frand in from Baltimore to address a crowd of 5 people, although those 5 people would certainly be learning Torah and accruing spiritual benefit. </p>
<p>So although every time Torah is learned there is immeasurable spiritual benefit, other more mundane factors such as the time spent and kavod of the speaker, the time of those involved in the project, the cost, the number attending, etc.. must be taken into consideration when evaluating whether to take on the project.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jaded Topaz</title>
		<link>http://www.beyondbt.com/2006/08/08/a-message-from-the-dungeon/comment-page-1/#comment-8781</link>
		<dc:creator>Jaded Topaz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Aug 2006 23:43:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.beyondbt.com/?p=449#comment-8781</guid>
		<description>Quick global point on the initial post. The only flaw in the glitter martini glass half full reasoning, albeit it being a great way to pretend things appear brighter than they actually are, using the Pollyanna perspective on a  personal spiritual growth comparison level  like: be bright and happy   .....there are homeless people in Port Authority that would give anything for the spiritual meaning/focus I&#039;ve managed to fabricate replete with intricate/artificial woolly direction weavings and fuzzy focus threadings - the knitting needles and yarn of today&#039;s blackberry and treo covers (hats and scarves are soo last season) don&#039;t usually work. You cant avoid the itchiness and cumbersome undertones and subtexts generally  associated with fabricated  and moth eaten woolly concepts -even if they do serve some sort of function . Its really just a cover if you think about it ...when your glass is empty.

Regarding Altruism -there will always be those that are less fortunate and those that are more fortunate-its a universally applicable given. It gets tricky when that is incorporated into  the &quot;Y am I doing this&quot; equation. The martini glass half full or it was meant to be  slogan definitely messes with free will/choice/effort and predestined hard coded facts - the four nebulous and fluffy components of that ubiquitous concept called destiny.
What makes St. Louis the winning city answer? Remote location kiruv options are endless-you can apply the same  reasoning to any given city or town from Neversink, NY to Truth or Consequence, NM to Bangor Maine.

One cant ever really get all cozy and comfortable with the  one size fits all slippers and flip flops of altruism . There are other sizes/manufacturers/sources of Altruism and the competition  to consider.You can even outsource your altruistic  instincts to third world countries  and give mass production a whole new global redefining  connection tag,  by becoming an actual manufacturer of altruism and branch out into related products like care and concern   and in the process eliminating  overall middleman  costs and reaching so many more end users. Or reaching end users that are not usually part of the general marketing campaign and targeted end user Altruism R. Us connection program. Its hard knowing what the right thing to do is or what you were meant to be doing according to g-d.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Quick global point on the initial post. The only flaw in the glitter martini glass half full reasoning, albeit it being a great way to pretend things appear brighter than they actually are, using the Pollyanna perspective on a  personal spiritual growth comparison level  like: be bright and happy   &#8230;..there are homeless people in Port Authority that would give anything for the spiritual meaning/focus I&#8217;ve managed to fabricate replete with intricate/artificial woolly direction weavings and fuzzy focus threadings &#8211; the knitting needles and yarn of today&#8217;s blackberry and treo covers (hats and scarves are soo last season) don&#8217;t usually work. You cant avoid the itchiness and cumbersome undertones and subtexts generally  associated with fabricated  and moth eaten woolly concepts -even if they do serve some sort of function . Its really just a cover if you think about it &#8230;when your glass is empty.</p>
<p>Regarding Altruism -there will always be those that are less fortunate and those that are more fortunate-its a universally applicable given. It gets tricky when that is incorporated into  the &#8220;Y am I doing this&#8221; equation. The martini glass half full or it was meant to be  slogan definitely messes with free will/choice/effort and predestined hard coded facts &#8211; the four nebulous and fluffy components of that ubiquitous concept called destiny.<br />
What makes St. Louis the winning city answer? Remote location kiruv options are endless-you can apply the same  reasoning to any given city or town from Neversink, NY to Truth or Consequence, NM to Bangor Maine.</p>
<p>One cant ever really get all cozy and comfortable with the  one size fits all slippers and flip flops of altruism . There are other sizes/manufacturers/sources of Altruism and the competition  to consider.You can even outsource your altruistic  instincts to third world countries  and give mass production a whole new global redefining  connection tag,  by becoming an actual manufacturer of altruism and branch out into related products like care and concern   and in the process eliminating  overall middleman  costs and reaching so many more end users. Or reaching end users that are not usually part of the general marketing campaign and targeted end user Altruism R. Us connection program. Its hard knowing what the right thing to do is or what you were meant to be doing according to g-d.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>
